Are you a dating expert? We certainly weren't when we started dating again.
Neither of us ever imagined we'd be dating again - and ESPECIALLY not over the Internet. But we did it - and we are happier today than we ever dreamed possible. There are lots of reasons you can find yourself back in the dating scene again - divorce, the end of a longterm relationship, even the tragic death of your partner. Whatever the reason, we want to help you reclaim your happiness. If you've been out of the game for awhile, you may need to pick up some new skills. Online dating, emailing, IMing, TXTing, and simply some of the more common do's and don't's that never even occurred to you in the past. Here are some of our favorite ebooks and books on the subject! Start reading up! That final exam is a killer! :)
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"It IS possible!"
- Adam & Julie
Online Dating Tip
How Long?
How long should you email before you talk on the phone? How long should you wait before meeting live? How long before you hold hands, kiss, say "I love you." You might encounter some people who have hard and fast rules about such things. But there really is no right or wrong way. Do what feels comfortable to you. We emailed for two weeks (but never spoke) before meeting. The first time we said "I love you" was in an instant message. And it all worked out great! One word of caution: DON'T WAIT TOO LONG BEFORE MEETING. With just email, txts and phone conversations, it's way too easy to start imagining someone to be something they're not. As soon as you feel some interest and comfort level, go for it and meet for coffee!
12 Simple Rules by Elena Solomon
It used to be so simple, right? - "Is he cute? Do I like him? Does he like me?" Unfortunately the rules have changed. Make sure you get the rule book so you don't waste time, energy and emotions. Read 12 Simple Rules ONCE and get repeatable results for the rest of your life. Written by a life coach, Elena Solomon (pictured above) this e-book teaches:
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1000 Questions for Couples by Michael Webb
Sometimes you don't even know what questions to ASK! But dating again after divorce or a the end of a longterm relationship can be tricky. "1000 Questions for Couples" is written by best-selling author and top relationship expert Michael Webb, who has been featured in over 500 radio and TV shows. This brilliant e-book is a compilation of 1,000 of the most important questions couples should ask each other. These are questions that go beyond small talk and simply making conversation found in most "questions" books. All of these questions will help you to really know the thoughts, feelings and desires of the one you are with. Really know the things your sweetheart is passionate about. Learn how you can give them joy and happiness - and what irritates them and makes them blue. The e-book comes with a 100% money back guarantee.
Click to purchase "1000 Questions for Couples"
300 Creative Dates by Michael Webb
A latte at Starbuck's, "a walk in the park," dinner and a movie? It's time to get a little more creative. Also by Michael Webb, 300 Creative Dates contains dates specifically for celebrating the season, birthdays, anniversaries, vacation dates and other special occasions. You will find super inventive picnic date ideas and tips on making dinner dates - the most creative and romantic imaginable without spending a lot of money or time in preparation, and 8 creative ways to ask someone out. And there are dozens of dates that are perfect for long-distance relationships. Also included are 20 Dating Coupons - coupons you can give your sweetheart to redeem for future creative dates; the Do's and Don'ts of Dating for success. If you haven't been on many dates lately, or your dates have not gone very successfully, this information will be invaluable to you. As a special bonus - a collection of 14 disaster stories. They're hilarious, but also very valuable so you don't make the same mistakes.
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How to Attract Men - Or Women
Let's face it - if you're dating again after a divorce, an unpleasant end to a longterm relationship or even worse, the loss of your partner, you may not be feeling your most attractive. This easy to follow, step-by-step multi-media system for learning to attract women or men, it is jam-packed with quality information, so you can learn to approach, talk to and attract virtually any person - and even learn how to make them fall in love with you. "How to be Irresistible" helps you discover scientifically what attraction is, how it works and how to create it, so that your whole reality will change forever. There’s a session on how to overcome shyness, how to increase your self confidence, how to attract gorgeous people, how to keep people interested in you, and much more.
Click to purchase "How to be Irresistible" - for either Men or Women
GuyGetsGirl.com by Tiffany Taylor
For guys only - or maybe not... GuyGetsGirl.com™ is the only manual written by a woman, Tiffany Taylor, who really knows what it takes to get a girl. Originally written in 2003, it has been expanded and updated for 2009 action. It is: The only dating and pickup guide written by a woman for men; methods that really work with every woman; lifetime membership for one low price; professionally written and very easy to read and understand; 3 great free bonuses; a one-time fee - no hidden charges; 60 day money back guarantee; and regular free updates.
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Meet & Keep the Right Man by Naomi Miller
And for the ladies - why wait for him to make the move??? "Meet and Keep the Right Man" is the only dating and attraction system in existence that will teach you how to become irresistably attractive, find and keep the right man for you, and achieve the lasting and meaningful relationship you really deserve! "Meet & Keep The Right Man" is a 220-page downloadable e-book. The book is jam-packed cover to cover with everything you need to know on how to understand the secret "male psychology," avoid the traps and mistakes and handle the most critical situations with men so you can finally meet the man of your dreams and keep him for good.
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How to use the power of choice to win in the dating game (and how to find people that have the same goal as you - to meet someone). |
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The single most effective way DATING GURUS use to get a date (the closely guarded professional secret!). |
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The one SIMPLE criteria that will make your dating life ten times easier (this simple distinction will change your whole outlook on the dating game). |
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How to find your true love - the person who will be always on your side and will never judge you. |
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The secret reason some people succeed at the dating game (and others are big losers).How to use body language. |
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The five essential steps to getting the relationships you desire. |
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Why meeting your soulmate through a dating site is ten times easier than meeting someone in real life. |
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The most important step to take if you really want to change your life. |
Dating again? It's not as hard as you think!
